better understanding
of the other person’s viewpoint, prepare what we wish to say
and encourage in the speaker a greater receptivity to what we wish
to say when finally it is our turn to hold forth. When
listened carefully is an advantage. We get to know in advance
what misapprehensions we have to sweep aside, what illusions we have
to dispel and what emotional barriers we have to break down. If we
speak without
subject discussed from different angles
by different speakers. It is only after mature
reflection upon what was said that we should
venture to air our views. And even then, they
should be aired with full consideration